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Episode 83 It is Okay to Ask for Help

How do you define self-sufficiency?

The Merriam Webster Dictionary defines it as, able to maintain oneself without outside aid or capable of providing for one’s own needs.

We may encounter a situation or two in our lives with the need for help.  Our requests may take many forms such as help with money to pay rent, help with babysitting after an emergency at work or help with a flat tire.  Each of those requests seem quite benign, but you may find it difficult to ask for help for fear of being denied, even worse there’s the embarrassment of letting someone else know that you are not self-sufficient.

You will hear stories about Susie, Linda, and Sylvia.  Each story is an extreme example of negative results associated with asking or giving help, in moments of need.  Most of us would prefer to be self-sufficient in every way at all times.  However, that is not what happens everyday.  Rich politicians ask for your donations and your vote.  Employers ask their employees to provide good customer service to help keep their businesses open. On the other hand, giving can fill your heart with joy and be a blessing to someone.  Imagine volunteering at a food distribution center.  Mentoring at-risk youth or spending time chatting with your elderly neighbor on a Sunday morning.

Lessons from the pandemic has taught us that going it alone is not sustainable for long periods of time.  We humans need each other.  You may need money, or a place to live.  You may only need conversation or a hug.  Whatever, you need on any given day, please know it is possible to be self-sufficient and ask for help when you need it.

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